Twin Flames and the Narcissistic Lover: When our need to rescue others stands in the way of Union

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The Twin flame connection carries enormous transformational potential but also comes with a higher purpose; that of bringing a new paradigm of heart-based living and spiritual partnerships to the Earth through the clearing of lower vibrational templates. When we as twin flames agreed to take on these patterns as part of our blueprint we knew that the deeper and darker the pattern within us, the brighter the influx of healing light and love on the planet when this pattern was released. It is for this very reason that many of us chose to incarnate into some of the most dysfunctional families on earth – so that through our personal growth we could bring maximum benefit to all.

Being born into a wounded family, we could so easily slip down the path of dysfunction ourselves. Yet no matter what our lives are like, we all have the same opportunity to…

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Newsletter–Failure is not an option, it’s a key to success

Merry holidays readers 🙂  Enjoy this week’s newsletter!  Also there is a mighty fine sale going on for all of my services, in person, phone and Skype until Jan 9th!  Gift certificates are available!  Check out the sale here.  This only happens once a year, so get in on that ,and you can use your time at any time!

Failure is not an option, it’s a key to success. This topic is so relevant right now in many of my client’s lives.  The trials and tribulations of taking responsibility for oneself are not easy.  We have such a resistance to the idea of failure.  Most people take it to mean there is something fundamentally wrong with them at their core.  And this is never true.
The fact that you are human right now guarantees your failure.  Oh I know how happy joy optimistic that does not sound. 🙂 But the evolutionary force that is moving us all forward requires our imperfect imperfections and mistakes to facilitate learning.  That is the name of the game here in 3d.  If you are here you are in this earth school and this is simply part of the rules.  So failure is not an option because 1) failure doesn’t really exist, it is simply a stepping stone to success.  And 2) it’s not optional because it’s necessary.  Do you genuinely, deeply, joyfully, want to succeed in your mission here?  Then step right up to the plate and be willing to take a risk and fail a little, and then learn from that.  Then do it again.  And again.  Keep going, and you eventually see that you– at your core–ARE wide enough to embrace the deepest failure of your life compassionately and with great wisdom.  The greater the fail, the greater the opportunity for love and light.
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December Webinars–one is free!

Howdy folks 🙂 Info about the holiday sale is coming out in the next newsletter, stay tuned!  I have two webinars this month, and one is free–my gift to you.  Your chance to chat with me about whatever you want 🙂  Check it out. Happy Holidays! -V

Life Lessons: Wisdom Gained from Mediumship, Near Death Experiences, and the Dying Webinar

 Wed, Dec 9th,  8-9:30 pm EST

What kind of wisdom do our loved ones share with us after they have crossed over? In this talk we will examine the life lessons behind the common messages received in mediumship. We will explore the fascinating similarities of the messages given by those who have passed, those who have had a near death experience, and those who are dying to understand what death teaches us about living our purpose, finding meaning, and what is truly important. We will investigate: evidentiary info, influential memories, validations of after death communications, types of “unfinished business” spirits seek to resolve, why spirits apologize a lot, the after death “life review,” and what spirits have to say about the process of dying. Examples will be given from my own personal and professional experience.

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If you are not available for the live stream, you will have access to the recording.

Also consider joining my video channel, where you have access to all of my previous webinars on various spiritual topics, which is quite a long list 😉 You also get access to all of the future webinars which are 2 times a month, including this one by joining. $19.99/month and that’s a sweeeet deal. Join here: https://victoriazaitzpsychicmedium.pivotshare.com/

Open Q & A: Ask me Anything! About Anything! Free Webinar

 Wed, Dec 16th,  8-9:30 pm EST

This is my last webinar of the year, and free to the people! Happy holidays 🙂 Here is your chance to ask me anything about my work and “how it works.” Great if you are not yet my client to get a feel for what I do. We will make this FUN–there will be giveaways, maybe coupons and even a fun game to win stuff. Short of doing a reading for you, I will answer whatever you got. Bring it 🙂

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If you are not available for the live stream, you will have access to the recording.

Also consider joining my video channel, where you have access to all of my previous webinars on various spiritual topics, which is quite a long list 😉 You also get access to all of the future webinars which are 2 times a month, including this one by joining. $19.99/month and that’s a sweeeet deal. Join here: https://victoriazaitzpsychicmedium.pivotshare.com/

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Twin Flames: How do you know?

You just do.  That is the very best answer there is.  What do I mean by “you just know.”  I’m talking about that gut level, visceral, completely convinced, no doubt because of the sheer enormity, blow you out of the water, it makes no sense in any other context–knowing.  But everyone wants to know how you know.  Do you know right away? Probably not.  Let me break this down for you.

1.) You are told.  Not just by your gut, but actually told.  Precognition, names, dates, you ask and you are given an answer. Synchs.  You get a straight up answer everywhere you look.  Multiple times. Until you are sick of it.

2.) How do you know that you have had a mystical experience–a vision, a spiritual awakening, a spontaneous healing, a near death experience?  You know like you know when that happens.

3.) You have awakened kundalini.  This is an absolute requirement.  Google it.

4.) You are mission focused and a lightworker.  If you are not yet, you were born to be, and you will be. No getting around it.

5.) You understand them completely–good, bad, the ugly, the beautiful, the warts. Everything.  Even if you don’t like certain things, major deal breakers, well–you get it.  Even if you wish you didn’t.

6.) Spiritual warfare.  This level of love and awakening will get your ass attacked.  Demons, real or parcels of your psyche, come at you. Narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths, energy vampires come at you.  Forces of the dark try to recruit you.

7.) You wish to everything that exists that it’s not true.  Not this person. No.  You wish you were not a twin flame.  And you must accept that you are.  You are probably very hesitant to use that word.

8.) Time.  The standard is years.  It takes years most of the time just to know in this way that I am speaking of.  Time does not remove the bond, and it never will. Even when you don’t want it, even when you cord cut, even when you bitch moan whine and complain.

9.) Have you ever been physically touched by someone who is not there when you are awake?  Are you a believer now?

10.)  Twin flames incarnate into shitty bloodlines.Alcoholism, drug addiction, domestic violence, beatings, sexual abuse, verbal abuse, family secrets, the mob, and nope, that is standard.  There is a lot of stuff to heal, and it goes wayyyy back.

11.) The masculine and feminine are very strong themes.  One will be predominately one or the other and the task is to balance.  The anima and the animus within is what they literally are.  The inner child of one gets treated like your own inner child.  That is why healing that innner child is so crucial.  Each has the other side of the story that contributes–for example, math/science and the other is spirit/intuition.

12.) Spontaneous healings.  Love always wins no matter what you are mad about.  Always.

13.) Polarity of light and darkness, sometimes to the extreme.

14.) Experiences of chakras merging.

15.) The daily struggle (usually) of how am I going to live through this?

16.) You know one another’s issues deeply and trigger them on the regular if they are not healed–which seems like a lot 🙂

17.) You love them the way you imagine God loves them.  Then you love them more.

18.)  Combined you create what is called the third energy, the holy spirit, whatever you want to call it.  It is palpable and noticeable by others.  Other twins can see it in you.  Strangers on the street can see it.  With the effect of raising kundalini, people will be attracted to you without knowing why. And for the same reason, people might hate you.

19.)  Complete spiritual awakening is what is going on.

20.) It’s so hard you just want to go home.  At the same time, so mystical and unbelievable that you are dumbfounded slack-jawed awestruck that anything like this is even possible on this plane of existence.

This is just from the top of my head.  There is more, way more. But the number one thing is you will know. You will find out.  Give it a few years, perhaps decades.  More to come on this, I was kinda forced by guidance to get this one out there ASAP.  🙂 ❤

An Attitude of Gratitude! And Other Spiritual Virtues: Edgar Cayce’s Tips to End Reincarnation Webinar!

An Attitude of Gratitude! And Other Spiritual Virtues:

Edgar Cayce’s Tips to End Reincarnation Webinar

 Tues, Nov 24th  8-9:30 pm EST

(changed from Wed the 25th due to Thanksgiving Holiday)

In honor of the Thanksgiving season, I will address the spiritual virtues, gratitude being one of them! Recently I had the opportunity to meet Edgar Cayce’s grandson, Charles Thomas Cayce, at a presentation in Pittsburgh about Reincarnation and how to make it unnecessary, essentially getting off the “karma wheel,” so to speak. There were a list of spiritual virtues presented, that when cultivated, mature a soul sufficiently so they graduate into higher states of consciousness, according to the Edgar Cayce readings. These are “fruits of the spirit” such as peacefulness, gentleness, kindness, long suffering/endurance, hopefulness/faith, brotherly/sisterly love, joyfulness, and honesty. The other 7 key virtues to cultivate besides the fruits of the spirit are forgiveness, an attitude of service, continuity of life and the spiritual journey, ideals, stumbling blocks to stepping stones, and meditation. These concepts, what they entail & how to cultivate them will be covered from my personal & professional view.
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If you are not available for the live stream, you will have access to the recording.

Also consider joining my video channel, where you have access to all of my previous webinars on various spiritual topics, which is quite a long list 😉 You also get access to all of the future webinars which are 2 times a month, including this one by joining. $19.99/month and that’s a sweeeet deal. Join here: https://victoriazaitzpsychicmedium.pivotshare.com/

Transmuting dysfunctional templates and clearing ancestral bloodlines for the benefit of your Twin Flame reunion

Read Jonna’s entire site. She is a friend, but also one of the best writers out there on this subject. We are always on the same page with our thought processes, I would think it erie if I didn’t know better. Enjoy!

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Twin flames have a very special role to fulfill in this time of earth’s ascension to a higher frequency. As volunteers to this 3rd dimensional plane of existence, we came here to anchor, emanate and demonstrate the new paradigm energies in order to raise the vibratory pattern of humanity as a whole. Then why is it, you ask, that when we “wake up” from our human slumber we are far from feeling like powerful, co-creating spiritual super heroes ready to take on the Matrix? In fact, when we awaken to the Twin flame experience and its cosmic call to assist humanity, we often find ourselves barely afloat in the fish soup of the lower human experience, stuck in the nitty gritty of everyday struggles; relationships and marriages that fail to nourish us, overwhelming family dynamics and soul destroying jobs, cracking under cultural and religious demands, in endless cycles of…

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Newsletter–Moving Through Loss and Grief

There is a sacredness in all of the emotions that we feel, as they are signs of life.  The grief that we feel is due to the strength of our love, which is beautifully unspeakable. How can it be thought to be weak to love that deeply? It is a shame that anyone could think so, no? As we awaken we understand that this is just a part of life, but not the only part.  🙂  The ground of our very being is this energy and love that runs the entire universe.  And that is powerful to know and experience.

Lots of good stuff and news in this week’s newsletter, check it out here

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Moving Through Loss and Grief Webinar

Moving Through Loss and Grief Webinar

 Wed, Nov 11th 8-9:30 pm EST

This webinar is about the emotional healing process that we all go through when we suffer a loss. The grieving process is a necessary and healthy step towards acceptance of transitions in our lives. Loss is subjective in its effects on people–one person’s reaction to the loss of a parent for example will differ depending on their relationship with that person, and their personal psychology. There are many different types of loss so there are many ways of grieving and we will discuss them. I will also be drawing from Elisabeth Kubler Ross’ 5 stages of grief and some of her other contributions to understanding bereavement in addition to my own personal experiences and observations as a healing practitioner, counselor and medium.
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If you are not available for the live stream, you will have access to the recording.

Also consider joining my video channel, where you have access to all of my previous webinars on various spiritual topics, which is quite a long list 😉 You also get access to all of the future webinars which are 2 times a month, including this one by joining. $19.99/month and that’s a sweeeet deal. Join here: https://victoriazaitzpsychicmedium.pivotshare.com/

Newsletter–The Spiritual Ego

The Spiritual Ego.  The spiritual ego develops at a certain point in a spiritual person’s soul journey.  They have begun to wake up to their true identity as a soul and a divine being.  They become immersed in spiritual activities and worldviews.  It is a joyous and exciting time.  They may even be called to start helping others and other aspects of working in the light.
And before they even know it, in walks the spiritual version of their ego.  Frankly, this happens when they have not been doing appropriate spiritual work on themselves, and usually this has to do with their shadow side.  They start to think they are better than other people, see themselves as a powerful authority figure, and attribute their gifts of divination, healing, and other wonders to themselves and not to the Source that gave it to them.  They may get greedy, money or power hungry and use their law of attraction knowledge inappropriately.  They may sacrifice their integrity and values, distort their experiences and qualifications, or think that they can use magic or any spiritual tool to achieve what their ego wants and to control others.  Essentially it is a spiritual power trip.  It can be dramatic or it can be subtle.  A more subtle form is the savior complex.  They may feel they have the right answers and now they must save and educate the world. Or their “help” is pretty much attention seeking, without the genuine desire to truly help others.
And what goes up, must come down.  The lesson that must be learned here is that your ego, even a spiritualized ego, is not in control of the world.  If there is a lack of moral integrity in your life and work, it will be exposed.  The essential quality of a spiritual person who is here to help others and not just themselves is a profound dedication to service, love of humanity and their foibles, and a relentless and humbling self inquiry into their own darkness and shadow side.  Many cult leaders are very high on their spiritual ego and take a lot of people down with them. So my advice to you is to be discerning, use your intuition and common sense with any spiritual teacher.  And be willing to not go down the same road.
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