Many are nowadays desperately seeking their twin flame and so they studiously assess each person they meet against their own twin flame criteria. These people believe that meeting the twin flame is not so much a matter of divine intervention as it is an inevitability since they are convinced it is only a matter of time. Sure enough, as soon as they fall head over heels madly in love with someone they claim this person as their twin flame. The danger here is that when problems later appear and they find themselves in a dysfunctional relationship or unhealthy, prolonged on-off pattern with this person, rather than re-evaluating the relationship for what it’s worth they cling onto this person and justify their mutual behaviours under the twin flame label.

With all relationships what matters is how it is making you feel inside and how it changes you. Therefore I would like to start…