Truths about the Twin Flame Journey

The twin flame journey is ineffable, fundamentally indescribable, a zone that is hard to put words to.  It is sublime, even though many of the world’s great love stories are based upon it, those myths and archetypes are bits and pieces of floating ephemera in comparison to the real thing.  You only know it when you are in it, and you only see it in others when you have witnessed it in yourself.

I don’t mean this in a romantic love story kind of way.  No, it is beyond.  Take whatever you know about love, and the twin flame experience is still further beyond comprehension.

Take your current limitations and declarations of “I can’t” and smash them up against the wall.  Take your understanding of the time space continuum and the beliefs about how your world operates and what you think is possible and trash them.

When you see the truth of what twin flame love is, it is like Paul being struck off his horse by the bolt of God. Imagine that light of truth striking you in the face, surrounding you and infusing you with a kundalini transformation.  That is how Saul became Paul, and every Saul twin flame will become Paul.  It is only a matter of time.

The truth is it is the most mystical, frightening, amazing AND hardest connection you will ever have.  You will be pushed beyond any limitation you have constructed in your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual bodies.

There is no “I can’t.”  And that is the truth about the words, like unconditional love, that we throw around.

It will require you to be utterly alone, digging into the recesses of your unconsciousness for clues to heal yourself.  It will require you to scoop up your inner child off the floor and hold her screaming and crying in your arms.  It is the inner work you do to find out how to love yourself—all of you, the darkest corners of you that the conscious mind has conveniently forgot.  And in the midst of the light and dark, shadow play of awakening, you are both alone and together.

You are both fighting this battle and it gets tiresome and it gets weary.  Twin flames pull the trigger to your own self discovery.  You will never know how deep the rabbit hole goes, because it is a process spiraling ever deeper.  There is always more to learn and discover, clear, heal, work through, so there is never a true “I can’t.”  You can and you will.

It is simply not the path for every soul on this planet.  It does not fit into any box that anyone else could try to conceive of.  It is a kind of growth that not all will experience.  It is not anything like other types of relationships because it is the energetic force that is transforming our very limitations about relationships.

But we have to try to explain this, because it is the forward progression of our conscious understanding of love.  It is the front line of new template creation.  It fits into the grand design, as aspects of its connectedness can be found in our relationship to everything that exists.  There is no one you will understand better, or seek to understand as much, as your twin flame.  And in knowing them, you know very deeply yourself.  Because they are one and the same.  In understanding this unity you can see the unity everywhere.  You can seek to understand your connection to everything and everyone, whether it is pleasant or unpleasant, and especially if it is challenging.

It is an end to the concept of war.  The masculine and feminine inside ourselves can no longer be at war. They have to integrate.  Twin flames are the outer reflection of this inner integration.  We are on the journey back to one.  Back to wholeness.  We are always so close.  But, more whole as we go. And the paradox is, the inner work creates the outer reality.

The truth is, it changes you.  It transforms you.  In ways you don’t understand until later, after you have integrated its teachings.  You are not in control of it, and certainly your ego is a puny force compared to it.  That force of life that allows your heart to beat and your cells to have oxygen and regulates your body is not under the control of your ego.  It does what it does.  It is smarter than you.

It is best to know its ways, rather than to make your ways fit into it. What can I say?  It is a mystery.  It feels like a blessing, it feels like a curse.  It is your life, your journey, your teaching, your path to tread.  Accept it.  Surrender to it.  Learn it. Love it.

Then expand and love more.

Newsletter–The Spiritual Ego

The Spiritual Ego.  The spiritual ego develops at a certain point in a spiritual person’s soul journey.  They have begun to wake up to their true identity as a soul and a divine being.  They become immersed in spiritual activities and worldviews.  It is a joyous and exciting time.  They may even be called to start helping others and other aspects of working in the light.
And before they even know it, in walks the spiritual version of their ego.  Frankly, this happens when they have not been doing appropriate spiritual work on themselves, and usually this has to do with their shadow side.  They start to think they are better than other people, see themselves as a powerful authority figure, and attribute their gifts of divination, healing, and other wonders to themselves and not to the Source that gave it to them.  They may get greedy, money or power hungry and use their law of attraction knowledge inappropriately.  They may sacrifice their integrity and values, distort their experiences and qualifications, or think that they can use magic or any spiritual tool to achieve what their ego wants and to control others.  Essentially it is a spiritual power trip.  It can be dramatic or it can be subtle.  A more subtle form is the savior complex.  They may feel they have the right answers and now they must save and educate the world. Or their “help” is pretty much attention seeking, without the genuine desire to truly help others.
And what goes up, must come down.  The lesson that must be learned here is that your ego, even a spiritualized ego, is not in control of the world.  If there is a lack of moral integrity in your life and work, it will be exposed.  The essential quality of a spiritual person who is here to help others and not just themselves is a profound dedication to service, love of humanity and their foibles, and a relentless and humbling self inquiry into their own darkness and shadow side.  Many cult leaders are very high on their spiritual ego and take a lot of people down with them. So my advice to you is to be discerning, use your intuition and common sense with any spiritual teacher.  And be willing to not go down the same road.
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Newsletter–From Darkness to Light

From darkness to light.  The process of working with your darkness and shadow material is the way to reach the light.  That is the barely admitted secret of transformation that many people just don’t like to talk about.  But the importance of this process is evident in shamanic practice, native indigenous practice, in multiple cultural mythologies and scattered here and there in religion.
One of the last places we usually find it is in new age philosophy. Within that lexicon we have things like the power of positive thinking and the law of attraction (re-interpreted.)  In that line of thinking we should not have negative thoughts or feelings, especially anger or hatred, out of fear that we will attract that in our life.  Well folks, this is incredibly blind and shallow, no?  Not to mention unrealistic.  A deeper approach is to understand that the “darkness” has to be accepted and worked through, not ignored and repressed.  That is what the whole Halloween season does. Brings out all the things we don’t dwell on in polite society such as death, (energetic) vampires, and fear.
The first thing to do is acknowledge that darkness exists.  Hatred, anger, murder, torture, abuse, psychopaths, yes they are all real.  All we have to do is turn on the news to figure that out.  The second thing to do is understand that you have a shadow side within you.  What in you looks like what you see outside of you?  (from esoteric hermeticism–as within, so without, as above, so below.)  And the third thing to do is get busy healing those things, feeling those yucky feelings, loving that inner child, and understanding that is the path to true change–in yourself and in the world.  From darkness into light, that is the way.  🙂
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Newsletter–Feeling Stuck or Restricted?

Feeling stuck and restricted?  Many of us have been. At this point in the astrology and energies since 2012, so many know they need to make huge changes.  Anyone still in resistance will really start to feel the heat now.
Usually what happens when we feel stuck is our resistance.  Stuck and stagnant energy will always want to move and your soul wants to grow.  For many of us, it is our fear that keeps us restricted in a holding pattern.  That is the real reason for being stuck.  There is likely something that you don’t want to look at. Something you fear changing.  You may try to shut off your intuition and all the signs that point in another direction.  But in truth, the only real restrictions are the ones you place on yourself.  We do this by being too wrapped up in the mental body, thinking and rationalizing our way out of our own happiness.  We come up with excuses.  These are all ego’s tricky little ways to keep you right where you are.  So how do we get out?  If you don’t feel happy with something, that is your first clue.  Acknowledge your true feelings.  Get out of your head into your heart.  Get off the mental thought loops that keep you locked in worry and fear.  Get very clear about what you want.  Make a plan. Then go for it.
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Newsletter–The Illusion of Security

Here’s a snippet of this week’s newsletter:

Ok, this subject I am passionate about.  There is no such thing as genuine security in 3D reality.  The only, true, everlasting security is to be found in love, Source creative energy, God, the one, the foundation of all.  So the security we think we are going to find in material things, in accumulation and hoarding of anything, in our own physical bodies, in other people, in clinging to any situation as permanent, is simply not there.  So why are we trying so hard to chase after something that is not there?  I think it is because we are living in the egoic illusion that we are separate from God.  The security that we seek in all of the wrong places is our seeking for that realization of oneness with our creator.  Resolving to have that realization is the smartest and wisest investment you will ever make, and it makes a huge difference to how you relate to the 3D world.
Take a look around, everything is in a state of flux and change.  Flowing with that force and not against it is also wise.  So what are we doing when we are worried about security? We do things that we don’t want to do, in order to feel secure.  We don’t do things we want to do out of fear that we won’t be secure.  We don’t take chances or risks, because we think we have security and we are going to lose that.  We don’t make changes that we know we need to make.  We stay in a state of inertia, afraid to make a move and listen to our intuition.  We stagnate, we slow down to a crawl, and we become lifeless.  Our existence becomes determined by our fears.  Safety never created anything.  And safety is an illusion.  Everything you have accumulated you cannot take with you.  Your physical body is going.  The only thing that you take with you is whatever you have created in your heart and soul, and that never happened because you stayed in your comfort zone.  It happened because you realized who you are, what you can do, and you went out and did it.
Read the rest here and have a most fantastical, risky, love filled day! 😀
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New Webinar: The Evolution of Love–3D to 5D

The Evolution of Love: 3D to 5D Webinar

Wed, Sept 16th

8-9:30pm EST

 What does it mean to shift perspective from a 3d to 4d and 5d understanding of love? These dimensional realities don’t exist in some other place and time, they are higher levels of consciousness that exist right here and right now. As part of a spiritual awakening and growth process, these are dimensions that we get to access. I will explain these perspectives and illustrate them with practical examples. Our understanding of the energy of love is shifting; learn more about this and how YOU being on the planet at this important growth time in history can help to make this happen. In your personal life, professional life, and all your connections with others.

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If you are not available for the live stream, you will have access to the recording.

Also consider joining my video channel, where you have access to all of my previous webinars on various spiritual topics, which is quite a long list 😉 You also get access to all of the future webinars which are 2 times a month, including this one by joining. $19.99/month and that’s a sweeeet deal. Join here: https://victoriazaitzpsychicmedium.pivotshare.com/

Newsletter–Let’s get grounded!

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We are at the heart of Venus retrograde. She is traveling the darkness of the underworld. This is 40 days and 40 nights in the wilderness. The work has to be done. We take it day by day, night by night. And we prepare to re-emerge in early September, even brighter than before. But in order to know the light, we have to be familiar with the darkness. We have to go within to really see the light that is “out there.” There are no shortcuts. There is no where to run, to turn and hide from the soul, the true self, and everything that gets in the way of our light shining. What can we do to ease this process?

Let’s get grounded…..Read the rest here

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Newsletter–Freedom is a state of mind.

Please enjoy this week’s newsletter, you can subscribe to it at the top of the page.  Here is a snippet:

Freedom is a state of mind. One major thing we are learning on the spiritual path is how to be free.  Radically free.  You see, our spirit and soul have always been free and will always be free.  It is free of everything in it’s union with God.  It is a part of the infinite creation.  When a soul comes here into a body, it generates a personality, and ego and other elements of form.  All of these things are malleable, for the most part.  What is not malleable has been pre-ordained by your soul before you arrived here. back in the realm of spirit where you are completely free to choose.  But when we go within and awaken to who we really are, which I think is the point of coming here in the first place, we find the beauty of this freedom again.  We remember a love so vast it is amazing that we have forgotten.  We remember we are free, and most of the societal limitations placed on us are those imposed from the outside..BUT…these do not have to control us and our freedoms.  How many truth seekers break the rules?  Many.  Is this necessary? To a certain extent, yes.  Because if we only listen to the prescriptions of the outside world then we become only what the outside wants us to be…and then we forget again.  Who are we?  What has meaning?  Why am I not fulfilled?  Perhaps it is because you simply forgot, that you are so free!

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Newsletter–Are you in Alignment?

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We could say that the very purpose of soul connections is to bring you into alignment with your highest potential evolution on this planet.  Your highest potential is really becoming Love itself.
Most often it does not appear to be the case, but this is the meaning of this path.  It seeks for you to work through all of your barriers and impediments to both giving and receiving love.
So even if it looks and feels to be a complete mess, remember that our ego sees life as a tapestry–but only the backside.  Our ego sees the ins and outs of the weaving, but if you turn the tapestry to the front and look at it from the perspective of your higher self, it all makes sense and actually weaves quite a beautiful picture in addition to catching you in its web. 🙂
The issue then of course is your ability to see this bigger picture.  The big picture contains your lessons and learnings, and as we learn them, the more complete the picture becomes.
Your intuition will help you be in alignment. Remember though that alignment does not mean the easy button.  Alignment means you are on course.  It does not mean challenges will just disappear and you manifest instantly your wishes.  No.
Many people have this idea that to be in alignment and to follow your intuition is going to take the pain away from life.  Nope.  Life is life and pain is in it and a part of it. Suffering can be worked through, but pain is unavoidable.
What kind of love is your love? For yourself and for others?  Is it the kind that can withstand some challenges?  Learn some lessons?  Have some joy and breathe another day?
Ultimately in truth we are always in alignment as there are no mistakes, only lessons.  But it is easier to listen to your intuition, as it takes you on the path that is a tad easier than going around and around in circles to get to the same point.
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